Table of Contents

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Resolving Your Breakup

How to Get Your Ex Back — START HERE. This is an introduction and overview of what you should be thinking about, immediately after the breakup. If you’re confused, just start here.

Should You Reunite? — After a breakup THIS is one of the most important questions you need to answer. Let me help you figure this out.

Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back — Here I talk about getting your ex girlfriend back, and provide 5 action steps that you can follow.

Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back — If you want help getting your ex boyfriend back, this is for you. Clear, sensible, no nonsense advice.

Make Your Ex Want You Back? — For both guys and girls, making an ex want you back is obviously appealing. Let’s talk about that, shall we?

No Contact Guide — An in-depth guide to the popular “no contact” strategy. I answer the most common questions on the topic.

Get Your Ex Back After No Contact? — Once you’ve completed the “no contact” phase, be sure you don’t make this mistake. Also, find out what to do DURING the NC phase..

What Chance Do You Have? — I am often given a breakup situation and asked what the chances or likelihood of success is. Here I address the chances issue and the reality of couples who get back together, and those who do not.

Overbearing? — Are you single because you were too controlling or obsessive with your ex? Maybe you aren’t single but can see the warning signs? Regardless, read this to find out what to do.

Only for Subscribers — Some additional content for subscribers include:

  • How to Get Your Ex to Call You?
  • Does Making Your Ex Jealous Work?

How to Break Down Your Ex’s Wall — If your ex feels that you “don’t understand me” then you have a big wall to climb or beat down. The secret to this is to use one of our most important human abilities. Find out what that is in this article.

Do They Love You? — Some simple clues that can help determine if your boyfriend or girlfriend loves you. I wrote this in response to the many emails I’d gotten asking the big question: “does my boyfriend really love me” (and a few guys ask the same about their girlfriends.)


Signs She May Break Up with You — Quick overview of the common signs that signal an impending breakup.

Moving on — Sometimes the best move is to move on. Get help with the healing and moving on phase of your life.

Love Quotes — Here I share a few quotes I’ve found inspiring at one time or another. Good quotes can lead you into contemplation. Do not overlook the power of this!