How to Get Your Ex Back When He Has Moved On

Want your ex back? Here’s how to do it in three steps:

  1. Set a deadline for your efforts
  2. Get busy with your own life
  3. Send occasional fun messages to keep his interest

It’s that simple. Let’s break it down.

First, pick a deadline. This keeps you from wasting time. Choose a span that’s long enough to work (over 6 weeks) but short enough to stay focused (under 4 months).

Next, fill your life. Be so busy you barely think of him. A full life makes you happier and more attractive.

Last, train him to enjoy hearing from you. Send occasional short, fun messages. Use texts, emails, or calls – whatever fits your relationship. Make them witty. Even flirty. Your goal? Train him to look forward to your messages.

Break the ice if it’s been a while since you talked. Then repeat the process until he wants to meet up.

Don’t overcomplicate this. Even if he’s in a rebound relationship, the steps stay the same.

Remember: Simple is persuasive. Follow these steps to make him want to hear from you. He’ll convince himself to see you again.

Don’t make a fuss about it… Just let it happen naturally.

Try it out. Let me know how it goes.

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