Are you feeling heartbroken and confused because your ex has moved on, but you still want to get her back? If so, you’re not alone. It’s natural to feel upset and uncertain when the person you love is no longer interested in you. The good news is, there are certain steps you can take to rekindle your relationship with your ex and possibly get her back.
Here’s what you need to do:
- Give yourself a timeline for when you will make a final effort to win your ex back. After that point, you will accept that it’s not meant to be and move on.
- Immerse yourself in activities related to your life goals and ambitions, to the point that you rarely think of your ex.
- Send messages that bring a smile to her face, spark her curiosity, or make her laugh, so she looks forward to hearing from you.
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Take some time to establish a healthy timeframe within which you will work to get your ex back. By setting a limit on when you will reach out or make attempts to reconnect, you can focus your efforts and prevent yourself from becoming too attached to the situation.
Next, it’s essential to rediscover what inspires and motivates you in life. Having focus and purpose helps you build charisma, which can be very attractive. Without a mission or goal to achieve, it’s like being an actor without a script. Set yourself a plan with achievable goals and work towards them. This renewed focus will help you be more attractive to your ex and give you the edge when trying to win her back.
Once you have a time frame and a suitable mission, the next step is to get her talking to you again. For many of you, it will have been at least a few weeks since you last texted, called, or emailed your ex.
Send messages to your ex-girlfriend that are fun, upbeat, witty, or teasing. Your job is to make her look forward to hearing from you. She will look forward to receiving your texts if they provide a positive and enjoyable experience for her.
Repeat the above until you can easily persuade your ex-girlfriend to meet up with you.
Tip: Ask her to join you for a quick coffee or something similar—something easy for her to accept.
Finally, the steps remain the same if she is in a rebound relationship.
In order to get your ex back after she has moved on, it is important to establish a timeline for when you will make a final effort to win her back. Immersing yourself in activities related to your life goals and ambitions during this time can help you build charisma and divert your attention away from your ex. With your new found zest for life, you can send her messages that bring a smile to her face, spark her curiosity, or make her laugh. This is how you show her you’re still interesting and worth a second look. Finally, invite her to join you for a quick coffee or something similar in order to further bridge the gap and increase your chances of getting her back.