No contact works fast. It resets boundaries and clears your head after a breakup.
How Long to Wait?
Expect results in 3-4 weeks. Your ex will likely miss you by then. But don’t just wait. Use this time to improve yourself.
Taking a break from your ex helps you:
- Reclaim your power
- Build confidence
- Feel better
Give it at least two weeks. You’ll see it’s worth it if you use your time well.
Why Do No Contact?
It’s not just about winning your ex back. It’s about you. Use this time to:
- Reflect: What worked in your relationship? What didn’t?
- Grow: Try new things. Read. Take workshops.
- Get healthy: Exercise. Eat well. Rest.
- Connect: Stay close to friends. Make new ones.
- Get help: Try counseling or support groups if needed.
- Relax: Meditate. Do yoga. Find what calms you.
No contact helps you and boosts your chances with your ex.
The Bottom Line
No contact takes time. Wait at least two weeks after the breakup. Don’t reach out. Focus on healing instead. After that, you can decide to reconnect.
Remember: No contact is for you, not just your ex.