Make Your Ex Fall in Love with You Again: A 3-Step Magic Combo

I’m about to show you the same 3-step magic combo I give my clients so you too can help make your ex fall in love with you again. If you follow my instructions below, you will improve the odds your ex will come back to you. Sound good?

Great. First, I will outline a basic “if then” flow to show you how simple it can be to reunite with your ex. Then I will give you the 3-step magic combo that makes the process work.

How Simple It Can Be to Reunite With Your Ex

First, do whatever you can to reengage with your ex’s good feelings for you. If your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend feels good when thinking about you, they will be primed to miss you. And, so long as you help your ex feel good about you while not being with you, it is only logical they will miss you.

Second, once your ex begins to miss you, they will naturally want to get and be closer to you. Logically, your ex will not think it is a good idea. But emotionally, when your ex experiences positive feelings for you and misses your company, they will not care about the logic. Emotions hold more power than intellect.

So, if your ex wants to spend more time with you, they will persuade themselves why it is acceptable to do so.

Finally, now that your ex wants to get closer to you and be with you more often, we can agree that your ex is falling for you again. Right?


3 Steps to Make Your Ex Fall in Love With You Again

Use the following 3-steps to improve your dating market value —and, in turn— help your ex feel better when they think about you:

  1. Start by using humour to break the ice and kill any awkwardness
  2. Send occasional messages dripping in wit and self-confidence to demonstrate value and keep your ex on their toes
  3. Drop hints that show you are moving on and already enjoying life

You can combine all three for more potency after you reach step 3. For example, being funny and confident and sending occasional messages will only make you more desirable.

Let’s go over each step.

—Step 1: Use Humour to Break the Ice and Kill the Awkwardness

Humour helps break the ice and makes everything feel more natural.

It takes some pressure off because it sets up something for your ex to laugh about, so instead of feeling awkward, they get a good chuckle out of it.

When you use humour, you give your ex an easy way to resume the conversation with you. Think about it. Your ex is more likely to respond to a bit of light-hearted good fooling than anything serious.

Pick up your phone and send your ex something he or she can relax about and “go along to get along” with. Your ex will prefer a message from their funny ex than their depressed or argumentative ex.

—Step 2: Send Occasional Texts Dripping in Wit and Self-Confidence

Now that your ex is relaxed and open to hearing from you, it is time to send clever messages that show off your best qualities. Here, the more confident you sound, the better. We want to keep your ex on their toes (while planting desirable images of you in their mind.)

Every text you send will remind your ex you are thinking of them and give them a push to think about you. However, do not send too many messages as that tells your ex you have nothing better to do. Only send occasional text messages.

Remember that your goal is to help your ex to miss you. It stands to reason this is only possible if you are just as distant as you are on hand. The gaps between contact are just as important as your words. You need to show value (with your words,) so you stay on their radar while making it possible for your ex to miss you (by disappearing for a while.)

Wit and self-confidence go hand-in-hand. We all love it when someone makes us laugh or has a clever come back every time we text. Use this reality to your advantage.

—Step 3: Drop Hints Showing How You Are Enjoying Life and Already Moving On

Everyone prefers the guy or girl who is already happy and moving on with life. No one wants the ex who gave up. Therefore, you must not let your ex believe for a second you are moping around and waiting for another chance.

One of the biggest killers of attraction is when your ex knows they can get back with you whenever they want to. That’s why we want to drop hints that show you are moving on and enjoying your life.

For example, if you take a vacation or go out with friends now and then, your ex will think about how he/she is missing out on all the fun they could be having (if only they were still dating you.)

By dropping hints that show you are enjoying life, you allow your ex to paint a clear picture of their future if they want it: spending time with a happy person who they love.

Combine the Three Ingredients to Super-Charge the Effects

One of the simplest, most effective ways to make your ex fall in love with you again is by combining all three steps. After all, these three make a freaking harmony together:

  1. Humour
  2. Wit
  3. Happily moving on…

Mix and match. You can’t go wrong. And before long, your ex will remember how much fun texting with you is and want to be in YOUR world.

And yes, you can also flirt time-to-time to suggest you still think of your ex that way.

Make your ex think about you thinking of them while also aware you are probably thinking about someone else, too. That’s how you super-charge the effects and make it damn hard for your ex to move on without you.


To conclude, if you want your ex to fall in love with you again, follow my three steps:

  1. Use humour to break the ice and remove the awkwardness
  2. Send occasional witty messages to demonstrate your value and keep your ex on their toes
  3. Drop hints that show you are moving on and already enjoying life

So long as you start with step 1, you get to pave the way for steps 2 and 3. After that, you can mix and match and combine to your heart’s content. And so you see, the only thing to do now is to do it!

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About the author: i’m a relationship coach specialising in breakup recovery. i’ve been doing this for 12+ years helping thousands worldwide. i created the Breakup Dojo, a popular program with over 1,000 members. i’ve authored several in-demand breakup recovery products, drawing from my deep fascination with psychology. i also publish the “ex-communication” newsletter that’s packed with actionable advice to over 10,000 subscribers worldwide.