What Can I Say to My Ex to Get Her Back?

Here are five things you could say to your ex-girlfriend:

  1. I’m sorry
  2. I was wrong
  3. You’re the best thing that ever happened to me
  4. Let’s give it another try
  5. What can I do to make you happy again?

In theory, any one of these could put you on the right path to reconciliation.

But pay attention —

First caveat: Your timing is as important as the message. If you say the right thing at the wrong time, it will be ineffective.

Second caveat: Context is king. What you say must make sense for you and her. For some, it would be a mistake to say any of the above five as it would make their position weaker.

People are funny. You can sometimes get better results going off-the-wall. For example, here are five absurd things you could say that can also work:

  1. Hey, you know what would be really cool? If we could just like, switch bodies for a day or something
  2. I’m sorry I broke your heart and everything but I think it’s best if we don’t talk anymore
  3. I can’t believe you’re still mad about that one time when I was just awful
  4. I don’t want to be your friend or anything like that, but we should talk about what happened and maybe get married
  5. Can you please stop stalking me on social media?

Yes, these are silly. But, they can work just as well. It all depends on the personality of your girl, the context, and the timing.

How to Make Her Miss You and Want You Back?

Anything which reignites your ex-girlfriend’s feelings for you will help her miss you.

Use text messages, or pick up the phone if you’re confident, and use humour, wit, and a little flirting to spark her feelings.

  • Humour breaks the ice and takes care of awkwardness;
  • Wit makes you exciting and charismatic
  • Flirting makes her feel special and plants seductive thoughts in her mind

Tip: To miss you, she must not hear from you too often. You want to trigger positive feelings and then disappear for a while. Repeat until she is ready to meet you.

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About the author: Michael Fulmer is a breakup repair consultant and relationship coach. He publishes the Ex-Communication newsletter to inboxes all over the world. He also runs the Breakup Dojo, where he teaches you to make the right moves to outwit your ex’s negative feelings. Michael has been undoing breakups since 2011. No fancy suits, videos, or fake smiling photos. You won’t find Michael featured on Youtube, either.