Fix Your Long-Distance Breakup

Long-distance breakups hurt. Fixing them is harder. But you can do it. Here’s how.

1. Shut up

Don’t call. Don’t text. Surprise them with silence.

This isn’t a game. It’s a chance to breathe and miss each other.

Watch your social media. Don’t look desperate.

2. Get better

Use this time to improve. Learn something new. Get fit. Read a book.

Jack learned his ex’s language. It worked.

3. Say hi

After some time, reach out. Keep it casual.

Mention a shared memory. A show or song you both liked.

4. Talk real

Be honest about what went wrong. Don’t blame.

Use video calls. See their face.

5. Start fresh

Don’t copy your old relationship. You’ve both changed. Use that.

Samantha and Mike did this. It worked.

6. Plan ahead

Make a plan to be together. It helps.

Long-distance reconciliation is hard. But it’s possible. You can do this.

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