How to Make Better Decisions So Your Ex Feels Better About You
Few things hit harder than a breakup. Undo A Breakup is here to guide you through recovery and reconnection step by step. Whether you want to follow the complete plan to get your ex back, understand the no contact rule, or know what to do right now, you'll find practical advice you can act on today.
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The Six Stages of Getting Your Ex Back
Follow this proven framework in order. Each stage builds on the last:
- Step Back – Stop all contact and give your ex space to miss you.
- Start with the no contact rule
- And calculate how long to wait
- Start with the no contact rule
- Rebuild Yourself – Focus on genuine self-improvement while you heal.
- Clarity Check – Honestly evaluate if getting back together makes sense. Not all exes should reunite.
- Reopen Contact – Reconnect strategically without pressure.
- Clarity Conversation – Have honest discussions about trying again when the time is right.
- Start Fresh – Build a new relationship or move forward stronger than before.
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Just Experienced a Breakup?
There's a lot we can say about "what to do" after a breakup. Like, "to win them back, you'll have to improve how your ex feels about you." But right now? Don't panic. Just take these immediate steps to protect your emotional well-being and set the stage for a potential "back together" outcome:
About Michael Fulmer
Michael is a relationship coach and breakup recovery expert with over 14 years of experience. Since founding Undo A Breakup in 2011, he has helped thousands of clients heal from heartbreak and make better decisions with exes.
Trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 1 & 2,) with a background in psychology and communication, Michael brings a scientific, evidence-based approach to his coaching. His speciality is reversing breakups, both the pain of a breakup and —where sensible— the relationship itself.
“Your advice is practical and direct. It reflects a profound understanding of relationships and how to repair.”