You can stop or reverse your breakup (even if you’re the only one trying!)

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My girlfriend and I broke up last week. I followed your instructions and we are back together — Erick Nelson

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I’m sorry you broke up and find yourself confused, hurt, and lost. What you need is simple, practical guidance to get you through this challenging time. Together we can work to reunite you with your ex.

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A personal message from Michael Fulmer:

Couples reunite every day

Hello, I’m Michael Fulmer 👋, and I see couples reuniting every day in my work. Although, between you and me? Not all former-twosomes should (gasp!)

Now that I’ve put my foot in it, let me address a fundamental concern for any recently single souls who find themselves here:

Who’s to say in 3 months you won’t be happier staying single for a while or being in a new relationship?

For that reason, start by asking yourself if reversing your breakup is the right goal for you and your ex.

Ask yourself:

  1. Did we have something special worth saving?
  2. Are we compatible for a long life together?

Please be honest.

If you answer yes to both questions, you can focus on what to do, safe in the knowledge you are not heading down a dead end.

With that, you can find guides showing you what to do to undo your breakup.

They are easy to find with a quick search.

For example, you can visit discussion forums if you want to read about other’s going through a breakup.

And of course, there are how-to products which cost money. If you go that route, watch out for crazy claims. Some paid-for guides will give you an edge. Some will not, (e.g., “learn the secrets to making your ex crawl back into your arms.”)

Whatever route you take, I recommend you have a structure to follow. A good plan helps to contain your volatile emotions. A great plan will skyrocket your odds of getting the outcome you want.

In 2012, I put together an emergency breakup plan because I knew recently broke up people act hasty.

I wanted my clients to take their steps with confidence. To know how to create the best chance of reuniting.

I still have the “emergency breakup plan” PDF on my hard drive. It was popular!

But in 2015, I got serious and created a proper ex-back program.

Each year I improve this program making the 2021 version better than ever.

But we can talk about that later if you want.

Can I be frank?

Coping with your breakup is hard

Few things hit us as hard as a breakup.

I’m sorry a breakup is what brings you here today. I do not doubt your pain for a second.

Because of your pain, you must be careful when taking advice. Across the web, the recently “dumped” are often mislead or given wrong instructions.

Some people will underestimate the pain of a breakup.

They have either forgotten the pain or live in denial from not moving on from their own “special someone.”

There are also those who seek to convert your misery into money!

Watch out for bold claims. Some promise you’ll be together again —“guaranteed”— if you obey the magic words in their eBook. Your heartache is a niche to profit from and put food on the table.

But it’s not all bad. So be mindful, not paranoid! It is how the world is and not unique to undoing breakups. While I want you to be cautious, I should stress there are GOOD people with great products which will help you.

Lot’s of people want to help.

Pay attention, and you will soon spot the difference between cheats and those who are the real deal. It’s vital to have the best in your corner.

If reading these words prepares you, I’ve done my good deed for the day.

One more thing.

Please know no matter the words I use, they will not 100% describe the pain you are feeling.

Some things in life can only be experienced. So I wanted to let you know I recognise this truth. And that I am sorry you are going through this.

What now? Go and select the topic you want help with below:

Main topics ↓

Learn how to get back with your ex. Simple advice for men and women. This six-step guide works and is easy to follow.

Today you’re going to learn how to get your ex-boyfriend back (from a guy’s POV!) Why listen to me? Because I have ten years of experience helping women.

The problem with asking how to get your ex girlfriend back (etc.) is you expose yourself to a lot of the same advice (yawn.) Let’s look at what’s ahead.

You can get your husband back and save your relationship. Don’t give up hope! Here are a few tips that may help you win him back.

A selection of real answers I have given to men who went on to get their wife back! Yes, you can stop a divorce or save a marriage.

The Complete Guide

Learn about the no contact rule: What it means, why do it, and for how long. Includes an FAQ section and a warning for how this tactic can backfire.

Discover how to re-attract your ex boyfriend or girlfriend with these 4 lesser-known tips. Come drink up these refreshingly different tips to attract your ex.

Should you text your ex? My answer: Read this page. Then you will know when you can text your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend (or not.)

If you want your ex back, you will no doubt be looking for signs your ex wants the same. What those signs look like are revealed on this page.

You know the expression “playing it cool”?! Well, that’s exactly what your ex might be doing in order to pretend to be over you. Let’s look at the signs, shall we?

Products and services

The best way to help you is through my professional products and services.

Relationship consulting

Would you like to have 1-on-1 consulting with an experienced breakup expert? I will help you navigate this difficult time with advice tailored to your situation.

Yes, I am an Ex Back Coach for hire! Follow the link to learn more about how I can help you, including a new experimental service which is surprisingly affordable.

My ex back course

Go Pro: Improve your chances ten-fold with my flagship program called Breakup Dojo. In this, I show you how to outwit your ex’s negative feelings (details shared with email subscribers.)

🙋‍♂️ Oh, and just one more thing:

Is your ex thinking about you and having second thoughts? 👀

How about I give you three strong signs your ex is having second thoughts and wants you back?

Up to you 🤷‍♂️

If you want to know more…


My girlfriend and I broke up last week. I followed your instructions and we are back together — Erick Nelson

About the author: Michael Fulmer is a breakup consultant and relationship coach. He publishes the Ex-Communication newsletter to inboxes all over the world. He also runs the Breakup Dojo, where he teaches you to make the right moves and outwit your ex’s negative feelings. Michael has been repairing breakups since 2011. Working alone, no fancy suits, shooting videos or posting fake smiling photos. You won’t find Michael featured on Youtube (for now…)