Follow my advice, and you can fix your breakup. After ten years showing men and women how to reverse their breakup, I have a good idea of what works.
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Just Broke Up? Start Here:
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A personal message from Michael Fulmer:
FACT: Couples Reunite Every Day
I see couples reunite every day in my line of work. But not all couples should (gasp!)
Who’s to say in 3 months you won’t be happier staying single for a while or being in a new relationship?
For that reason, start by asking yourself if getting together is the right goal for you and your ex.
- Did we have something special worth saving?
- Are we suitably compatible for a long life together?
Please be honest.
If you answer yes to both questions, then you can focus on what to do, safe in the knowledge you are not heading down a dead end.
With that, you can easily find guides telling you what to do to undo your breakup.
They are easy to find with a quick search.
You can also visit discussion forums to read the experiences of other people going through a breakup.
And of course, there are how-to products which cost money. If you go that route, watch out for ones that make outrageous claims (e.g., “learn the secrets of making your ex crawl back into your arms.”) Some paid-for guides are excellent, though.
Whatever route you take, I recommend you have a structure to follow because a good plan helps to contain your volatile emotions.
About eight years ago, I put together an emergency breakup plan because I knew recently broke up people are hasty.
I wanted my clients to take their steps with confidence. To know how to create the best chance of reuniting.
I still have the “emergency breakup plan” PDF on my hard drive. It was popular!
But in 2015, I got serious and created a proper ex-back program.
Each year I improve this program making the 2020 version better than ever.
But we can talk about that later if you want.
Can I now be frank?
Coping with Your Breakup is HARD
Few things hit us as hard as a breakup.
I’m sorry a breakup is what brings you here today. I do not doubt your pain for a second.
Because of your pain, you must be careful when taking advice. Across the web, the recently “dumped” are frequently mislead or given wrong instructions.
Also, some people grossly underestimate the pain of a breakup.
They have either forgotten the pain or live in denial from not moving on from their own “special someone.”
There are also those who seek to convert your misery into money!
Watch out for bold claims about how you will be together again —“guaranteed”— thanks to some magical combination of words found in their eBook.
Sadly, your heartache is just a niche to profit from and put food on the table.
So yes, be mindful of that. Though not paranoid! It is just how the world is. Not unique to undoing breakups. And while I want you to be cautious, I should also stress there are GOOD people and good products available, too.
Lot’s of people genuinely want to help.
Hopefully, with some effort, you will be able to tell the difference between the inconsiderate and those who want to stand in your corner.
If reading these words prepares you well, then I’ve done my good deed for the day.
Lastly —before you jump in— please know no matter the words I use here, they will not entirely describe the pain you are feeling.
Some things in life can only be experienced. So I wanted to let you know I recognize this truth. And that frankly, I am sorry you are going through this.
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