Are You in The Right Place?
Your situation is fragile and time is short.
What follows will help you decide if you are in the right place.
I’m not for everyone. If you are in the early stages of a relationship (at the time you broke up,) I won’t be as helpful to you as I am for those exiting a serious relationship.
For the latter, my knowledge and expertise will be very helpful.
If your relationship was serious —
I can likely help you improve your situation favourably and certainly your personal attitude.
But wait a second..
You are probably now wondering, “who says they can likely help me?” I mean, shouldn’t I be telling you “here’s how to guarantee your ex will come running back?”
Right. But that’s not how I do things here.
I understand — and I’m not afraid to embrace — the uncertainty of the situation you are in.
Relationship “success” is not an event. It is a PROCESS.
To maximise the chance of success we must use the best strategies we can for the situation at hand. And work at it daily.
The better the strategy (and application of it..) the better the results.
Can You Get Your Ex Back?
I want to be candid and share a few words with you that most wouldn’t.
If you’re wondering, “can I get my ex back?” let me be blunt:
I don’t know.
All I can say is..
IF you do everything right then in return you will have increased your chances.
That’s the reality.
“Everything right?” —
Just quickly then:
To find out what “everything right” looks like, you might get coaching OR you might follow free instructions you find online or from a paid course.
In general? The better the source, the closer to “everything right” you’ll get.
Even when you do everything right..
You MUST accept that your ex has FREE WILL which means they’re free to do as they please (just as it should be.)
But you know?..
Looking around, I see this plain fact appears to be ignored.
Maybe you have also seen these promises which pretend free will does not exist? E.G:
- “This ninja technique will have your ex running back to you…”
- “When you follow my steps your ex will be begging you to take them back”
It’s like these “experts” found a way to overrule free will (which is impossible.)
No. They just want to manipulate your desire to believe it is so. Because they know you are more likely to believe what you already want to be true (especially when vulnerable.)
When I see that in an article or sales page I feel anger.
So for my own sanity I want to be very clear with you —
You might not get your ex back.
That’s right. I’m fed up with people telling you they’ll get your ex back easily, or that they’ll teach you a “secret technique” to make your ex “weak at the knees,” and have them begging you to take them back. Please..
This is dishonest.
I’ll show you what CAN work (not will) and how to not demean yourself (or your ex) in the process (important.) This is what I do professionally (meaning I am paid to do so.)
I know how to increase your chances and get you to a much stronger position, even in a difficult time. And yes, some of my best (paid) advice is unconventional but only because I am not repeating the same ideas as everyone else.
So that’s what I do.
This is more ART than science. It is not going to be perfect. The results are not repeatable. This is not “how to fly a plane” which IS science and IS predictable and IS guaranteed to succeed if you follow the steps correctly.
I want you to understand that ALL the books, videos, membership programs, courses etc available to you, are more PARTIAL solutions with a chance factor built-in.
Some better than others.
Think of it like this:
The better the source of information you follow + the better you apply it = the amount your “chance dial” turns up.
I specialise in turning the “chance dial” up as far as possible while protecting the self-worth and pride of both parties.
My own course(s) and coaching focuses on everything you CAN do and CAN control that CAN improve your situation. And yes this includes ways to INFLUENCE your ex toward your most wanted goal.
Bottom line —
I can’t promise you will get your ex back. But neither can anyone else in the entire world. However, plenty will make promises they can’t keep, and will think being dishonest with you is OK. But I don’t.
I recommend starting with the obvious: how to get your ex back (a good starting point) although feel free to narrow your focus accordingly e.g:
Thank you for visiting the site.
In your corner,
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If you like what you’ve read here, and want more breakup-to-makeup tips from me then I’d be delighted to send you my emails..
Emails. Remember Them?
I have written a small series of emails that you can get delivered to your inbox (free, of course) that cover a few things not yet covered here on the site.
The content of my emails differ to what you find here in two big ways:
- They’re a lot shorter;
- I write in a more personal tone..
Subscribers also get access to hidden content here on the site.
The first piece of content shares the 7 dead giveaway signals your ex may show you if you have a chance of getting back together. They’re not the only signals, but they are pretty common.
You’ll also find out:
- The best tip I have (shhh)
- How to get your ex to call you?
- Don’t do what this person did (no no no!)
- Why you must give your ex space, and how long for?
- Why you can’t chase your ex into your arms..
- What will you learn from the broken tea cup story?
- Will making your ex jealous work? Should you do this? (my warning to you is not to be missed!)
- Find out about the two types of relationship that end. Which type is yours? And what does it mean?
- Why SMART couples have THREE relationships…
There’s more of course. That’s just a selection.
“My girlfriend and I broke up last week. I followed your instructions and we are back together” — Erick Nelson