Ex Back Playbooks: Complete Action Plans
Step-by-step guides for every situation.
Each playbook covers the entire process—from first steps to rebuilding trust.
New here? Start with the complete ex back plan, then explore situation-specific guides below.
How Playbooks Fit Into the Framework
These playbooks complement my 6-stage framework. Use them as action-oriented guides while following the stages:
- Step Back – Give them space and create curiosity
- Rebuild Yourself – Focus on genuine self-improvement
- Clarity Check – Evaluate if reunion makes sense
- Reopen Contact – Reconnect strategically
- Clarity Conversation – Express your intentions clearly
- Start Fresh – Build a new relationship or move forward
Quick Guide: Which Playbook Should You Start With?
Not sure which guide to read first? Use this quick reference:
- Start here for everyone: Complete Ex Back Plan – The universal 6-step strategy
- If you were clingy/needy: Get Him Back After Being Needy or Get Her Back After Being Needy
- If they're with someone new: When He's Moved On or When She's Moved On
- If you cheated: How to Get Her Back When You Cheated
- If you're married: Get Your Husband Back or Get Your Wife Back
- If you're divorced: Get Your Wife Back After Divorce
All Playbooks
Browse the complete library below. Each guide includes specific tactics, timelines, and psychology:
Breaking up hurts. But it's not always the end. Simple tricks can rekindle attraction and fix what's broken. Here are four ways to do it:
Breakups hurt. You're in pain. I get it. I'll tell you how to get your ex back. It's simpler than you think.
Want your ex-girlfriend back? Follow these steps.
Want your ex-boyfriend back? It's possible. I've helped many couples reunite. Here's how to do it.
You cheated. Now you want her back. It's not easy, but it's possible. Here's how:
Lost your girlfriend due to neediness? Here's what to do:
Lost your boyfriend because you were clingy? Don’t worry. Here’s how to fix it:
Lost your "Mr. Right"? Don't give up. Your husband leaving doesn't mean he won't return. Here's how to win him back:
Want your ex-girlfriend back? Make her jealous. Here's how.
Your husband left and you want him to come running back.
Breakups hurt. You want your ex back. I get it. But desperation pushes people away. Here's a better way:
Want him back? Here's how to do it in three steps:
Breakups hurt. You want her back. Here's what to do:
Divorces are common. About 40% of marriages end this way. But it's not always the end.
Your wife left. It hurts. But don't panic. You can win her back. Here's how: