The 6 stages of recovery:

  1. Step Back
  2. Rebuild Yourself
  3. Clarity Check
  4. Reopen Contact
  5. Clarity Conversation
  6. Start Fresh

Stage 1: Step Back to Give Space

July 2025

Sometimes the best move is no move. Step back. Give them space.

This first stage is about controlling your urge to reach out. It's counterintuitive but essential. Contact now can hurt your chances later.

Below you'll find clear, practical guides to help you do it right.

Read these articles to master the no contact phase:

Stage 1: Step Back / No Contact Bump

Stage 1: Step Back / Dating No Contact

Stage 1: Step Back / Still Texting

Stage 1: Step Back / No Contact Game

Stage 1: Step Back / Immediate Steps

Stage 1: Step Back / No Contact Parenting

Stage 1: Step Back / 30 Days No Contact

Stage 1: Step Back / No Contact Calculator

Stage 1: Step Back / No Contact rule