The 6 stages of recovery:

  1. Step Back
  2. Rebuild Yourself
  3. Clarity Check
  4. Reopen Contact
  5. Clarity Conversation
  6. Start Fresh

Stage 1: Step Back to Give Space

9. Jul 2025 — Michael Fulmer

Sometimes the best move is no move. Step back. Give them space.

This first stage is about controlling your urge to reach out. It's counterintuitive but essential. Contact now can hurt your chances later.

Below you'll find clear, practical guides to help you do it right.

Read these articles to master the no contact phase: