Signs They'll Come Back

March 2025  — 
 blog

Breakups hurt. But sometimes, exes come back. Here's how to spot the signs:

Clear Signs

  1. They say it. If your ex tells you they want you back, believe them.
    1. They show change. Your ex points out how they've improved or notices your changes.
      1. They stay close. Frequent calls, messages, or hangouts, mean they want you in their life.

        Subtle Hints

        • They ask about you. Your ex seems interested in your life post-breakup.
          • They reminisce. Bringing up good memories suggests they miss you.
            • Friends drop hints. Mutual friends might know more than they're saying.

              Why They Might Not Say It

              Even if your ex wants you back, they might hesitate because:

              • Pride: Admitting they were wrong is hard.
                • Guilt: They feel bad about the breakup.
                  • Fear: Rejection hurts, and they're scared.

                    The Truth About Emotions

                    People change their minds. Your ex's feelings now aren't set in stone. Remember:

                    1. Emotions drive decisions.
                      1. Emotions change over time.
                        1. Decisions can change too.

                          Don't give up hope too soon. Your ex changed their mind once. They might do it again.

                          What to Do Now

                          1. Look for signs, but don't obsess.
                            1. Focus on yourself. Become the best version of you.
                              1. Be patient. Time can heal and change hearts.

                                Remember, you can't control your ex's feelings. But you can control your own growth and happiness.

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                                      By Michael Fulmer: Breakup expert with 14 years experience. Trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 1 & 2). Thousands helped worldwide. Created Breakup Dojo — now 1,000+ members strong. My products sell. My advice works. Psychology obsessed. It shows in my work! 10,000+ read my “Ex-Communication” newsletter. Need breakup help? I’m your guy.