Gottman Method
March 2025
Strong relationships don't happen by accident.
The Gottman Method offers proven tools to build trust, improve communication, and deepen connection.
Explore these evidence-based strategies to create a better relationship.
Key Concepts
The Gottman Method is built on several key concepts that form the foundation of healthy relationships:
- The Four Horsemen
- Criticism
- Contempt
- Defensiveness
- Stonewalling
- Criticism
- Love Maps
- Know your partner's world
- Know your partner's world
- Fondness and Admiration
- Strengthen positive feelings
- Strengthen positive feelings
- Turn Towards Instead of Away
- Respond positively to partner's bids for attention
- Respond positively to partner's bids for attention
- The Sound Relationship House
- Seven levels of a strong relationship
- Seven levels of a strong relationship
Benefits of Gottman Method
Couples who engage in the Gottman Method often experience numerous benefits:
- Improve communication
- Increase intimacy
- Resolve conflicts effectively
- Create shared meaning
Need Guidance? Consider Therapy
For those who want it, understanding the therapy process can help you feel more prepared.
The typical process includes:
- Assessment phase
- Treatment phase
- Phasing out therapy
Tips for a Healthy Relationship
Implementing daily practices can significantly improve your relationship.
Explore the comprehensive Relationship Tips guide for strategies including:
- Express appreciation daily
- Learn to fight fair
- Make time for each other
- Support each other’s dreams
Turn Towards Instead of Away
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The Sound Relationship House
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The Four Horsemen
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Relationship Tips
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Couples Therapy Process
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Fondness and Admiration
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