What to Say to Get Her Back?

April 2025  — 
 blog

Want her back? Let's keep it simple. Here are five things you could say:

  1. “I'm sorry.”
    1. “I was wrong.”
      1. “You're the best thing that happened to me.”
        1. “Let's try again.”
          1. “How can I make you happy?”

            Any of these could work. But here's the catch:

            Timing matters more than words. Say the right thing at the wrong time, and you'll fail.

            Context is king. Your words must fit your situation. Sometimes, saying nothing works best.

            People are weird. Crazy talk can work too. Try these:

            1. “Let's switch bodies for a day.”
              1. “I'm sorry, but let's not talk anymore.”
                1. “Still mad about that awful thing I did?”
                  1. “We should talk and maybe get married.”
                    1. “Stop stalking me on social media.”

                      Silly? Yes. Effective? Maybe. It depends on her, your history, and when you say it.

                      Make Her Miss You

                      Want her to crave you? Spark her feelings. Use texts or calls. Be funny, smart, and flirty.

                      • Humor breaks the ice
                        • Wit makes you exciting
                          • Flirting makes her feel special

                            The key? Contact her, then vanish. Repeat until she wants to meet.

                            Remember: To miss you, she can't hear from you often. Trigger good feelings, then disappear.

                            That's it. You now know what to say and do to get her back. You're welcome.

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                                  By Michael Fulmer: Breakup expert with 14 years experience. Trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 1 & 2). Thousands helped worldwide. Created Breakup Dojo — now 1,000+ members strong. My products sell. My advice works. Psychology obsessed. It shows in my work! 10,000+ read my “Ex-Communication” newsletter. Need breakup help? I’m your guy.